Couples Therapy & Relationship Intensives · Montclair, NJ
Stop Having the Same Fight
For high-achieving couples done circling the same fight — ready for real repair, not another surface-level fix.
In-Person or Virtual
Montclair, NJ & Statewide Virtual
Betrayal Trauma, Communication & Reconnection
Weekly or Intensive
Sound Familiar?
You Love Each Other.
You're Just Tired of How You Talk to Each Other.
- Every conversation turns into an argument
- You're keeping score instead of connecting
- Trust issues linger after cheating, a lie, or a betrayal that hasn't been repaired
- You're more like roommates than partners
- You're wondering if this is just how it is now
You Don't Have to Be in Crisis to Get Help
Couples therapy can help you:
- Rebuild trust after cheating, betrayal, or a breach of any kind
- Work through trust issues that keep resurfacing, even years later
- Break communication patterns that keep repeating
- Reconnect emotionally and physically
- Navigate a major life transition together
- Feel like a team again, not opponents
How We Work Together
I work with couples using attachment-based, trauma-informed methods — not generic communication scripts.
We'll get to what's actually driving the disconnect, whether that's a specific betrayal, years of small ruptures, or patterns you both learned long before you met each other.
If one partner's pattern traces back to their own family of origin, Generational Trauma & Eldest Daughter Therapy may be worth exploring alongside couples work.
Sessions are available weekly, or as a structured couples therapy intensive if you're ready to do in 1-2 days what weekly sessions haven't been able to touch.
Visit Us
Couples Therapy in Montclair, NJ
28 Valley Rd, Suite 1, Montclair, NJ 07042
Get Directions & Contact InfoFrequently Asked Questions
Still have questions?
Take a look at the FAQ below, or reach out anytime.
If you're feeling ready, let’s talk.
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Yes. Approaches like attachment-based and trauma-informed therapy have strong outcomes for couples, especially when both partners are willing to engage. Most couples start seeing real shifts within a few months of consistent work.
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We get beneath the surface-level argument to the pattern underneath it, whether that's a specific betrayal, years of small ruptures, or communication habits you both learned long before you met. Sessions are available weekly, or as a focused intensive if you want to move faster.
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It depends on what you're working through. Many couples see meaningful change within three to five months of weekly sessions; deeper issues like betrayal trauma can take longer. Intensives can compress that timeline significantly.
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We can start there. Individual work often opens the door to couples work later, and it's still valuable on its own.
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Yes, for most couples. Sessions are conducted on a secure, confidential platform, and you can join from anywhere in New Jersey.
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No. Some of the most effective work happens before things reach a breaking point, as a way to strengthen the relationship rather than repair it.
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That's common, and it's exactly why intensives exist: more time and depth than a standard weekly session allows.
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That's common… Communication habits, trust issues, and conflict patterns are often shaped by the family each partner grew up in, long before this relationship began.
Couples therapy can address how those patterns show up between you, and individual work — including generational trauma therapy — can address where they started.
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Yes. Couples therapy in Montclair, NJ is available in person at the office, and couples counseling in Montclair NJ is also available virtually for couples who prefer to meet from home.
Relationships don't fall apart in one dramatic moment. They fall apart in a thousand small moments where no one said what they meant. We can find our way back to saying it.
Ready When You Are
Let's Get You Both Back on the Same Team
A consultation costs ten minutes. Waiting costs a lot more.
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